Thanks
Thank you for your encouragement. I'm standing firm, AH has calmed down, gotten over it, no apologies from me. He complained about walking 5 miles home after getting out of the "facility".....you had a cell phone, I would have picked you up. Not sorry I called the cops, that was YOUR fault. Don't think he'll seek treatment, he thinks AA is for losers. Whatever. We had a quiet New Years Eve, the first time he's been sober on NYE since I met him. He wasn't too thrilled about drinking sparkling cider at midnight, but he wasn't going to drink alone. When I commented about his first NYE in the house with the family (vs in the garage) he thought I was wrong, bitching as usual, but I know better. I don't really care anymore, I'll take it one day at a time, and today is a good day.