I'm a firm believe that no matter who your mother is or what star you were born under, or what choices you have made in the past. They can be used as excuses, mistakes or as growth experiences. Which page will become longer? Your parents? Your neigborhood? Your income level? Your birth sign? The weather? How smart or dumb you are, how rich or poor you are, how easy or complicated you are, how easy or hard you are to please? This is all a part of the "stuff" that you need to bundle up and leave in a heap by the side of the road. In truth, you are capable. You are intelligent. You are not a vicitm. You will face tomorrow morning being whoever you decide to be woth arms and legs and a brain that function and will carry you where ever you decide you want to go. As the sun rises, so will the person you decide you want to be and no one else. You can be happy, easy to please, you can bring joy to someone, you can a person who has set themself and everyone else free. You can refuse to keep looking back and going back. Life moves forward. You can move forward having every single person who crosses your path either happier or uneffected. You do not have to be effected or devastated by them. You can be one person tonight and a new creature when you rise. Do you understand the power you have in your own life?