Amen to the above. You got into the relationship and if you stay in, it is your problem, not his.
But you are not responsible for him, his alcoholism, his recovery or sickness. Nor are you responsible for anyone else's happiness. It is not selfish to live your life to please yourself. It is selfish to expect others to live their lives to please you. There is much freedom in being responsible for my own life, my own growth, and my own recovery.
Jim
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