Welcome shellyjd !
Gabe offered good suggestions to do things that
would make you happy day by day. These boards
offer plenty of love and support but decisions like
we learn in alanon are ones that we come to on our
own with our HP. We are all so different yet the same
in that we love or have loved our alcoholic, we can share
these experiences without judgment of a persons choices.
Hope I was making sence, there have been times that I
wish I didnt have to think or make a decision that
someone would just do it for me ! Those are probably
the times I didnt need to make any decision at all till
my head was clear again.
When you feel down and out or alone call someone or
get back on the boards and connect with those who
understand, its helped me so many times.
take care of yourself
liddy