Originally Posted by
mushroom 
You can choose to not allow him to hurt you anymore and you can choose to not get into another dysfunctional relationship like this one.
well i am not sure that there is such a thing as a NONdysfunctional realtionship in all honesty.
&& i am not sure i want there to be a -next time-
right now i am just determined to get out of this rut i feel like i am in.