I agree with Sketcher. My codependancy issues began before I even met G. b/c of those issues, my codependancy only got worse. Once I recognized where my issues began and what I could do to control it, I got better.
Have you ever heard of the saying, you can run but you can't hide. No matter where you go or who you meet you will always have to deal with yourself. Focus on YOU. Not on your relationship or where that relationship went wrong.....focus on YOU.