Do I look helpless? That's rude. Thank You would have taken less energy. Ignorant people attempt to replace class with brass and it just makes them look stupid. Sometimes it never occurs to some people that you can set baggage down and leave it right there. You are one man looking for one woman, if you were in outer space looking back at the world, that doesn't seem like anything so impossible. Your baggage is not junk, your baggage is wisdom. You have not aquired junk, you have become wiser and it's tougher to find someone special because you are no longer willing to settle. The best is yet to come.