Welcome - I couldn't agree more with what everyone else here have said...we all have our own stories to tell some with hope for the future and some with having a parting of ways but one thing is for sure hun...we all had to come to terms with our lives...and our own situations.
We dont always get the outcome that we hope for but we do get well. And I hope that you stick around here and gain strength through fellowship with us. I remember when I first came here and I came looking for answers and through the people here I came to realize that I was just as ill as my then STBXAH (soon to be ex alcoholic husband). And I still am. But growing stronger every time. Click on any of our names and read our past postings and you will see our histories and how we all came to be here and you will notice by the dates how the healing takes place. It's phonenmenal to be sure.
Have a Merry Christmas sweetpea.
Janit