Mine actually made lots of changes - lost 45 lbs., made huge changes at work and got promoted twice, got a new hobby that is interesting and exciting. But he did not stop drinking. He is tearing my heart out with his saddness over the end of our relationship, but he can't seem to do the one thing I need - to stop drinking totally. No "once in a while" no "Ooops I had another slip". I want it over. He can't give me that and it makes me want to vomit and cry at the same time.
Sorry. As I once confessed I generally post here when I'm at my most morose.