btw...i have a 4 year old boy, too!!! imagine the noise they would make if we got them all together!!!
i think i figured it out...we all got pregnant in 2001, after sept 11...i know i concieved aidan in the middle of that month...like the 13th...don't you remember how many women were pregnant that year??? tragidy made us feel more loving to our men, i suppose...i know aidan has been a blessing...i miscarried on august 9 of that year...and the fact that i got pregnant so soon after really helped me get past it...it was my second miscarriage...i had another when i was 18, and they are so hard...but so many women have been through it...sad....