Originally Posted by
AllTooSober Can you leave? Have him arrested? Convince him to leave?
I am so sorry this is happening to you! I can empathize to a point... my A gets demanding about sex when he's wasted too, and I'm just as turned off by it, but he never forces me into anything.
He thinks I am going overboard about it. He doesn't see it as much of a problem. I am working on leaving. He swears he doesn't know he's doing it and is determined when we go to bed not to do it but he does it anyway.
What is the diffrence between being demanding and forcing? I know that sounds like a stupid question but anymore I don't know the diffrence. He knows I will eventually let him do it so I can sleep. Sometimes I give in sometimes I can push him away Sometimes I can't push him away he is going to do it anyway.