Hi Melissa,
I am sorry that your BF had this relapse happen, but it is important that you take care of you. Praying for his Higher Power to open his eyes and heart can have a benefit for you too.
Its really painful to stay involved at the micro-managerial level with an addict or alcoholic who is active. It can divert a person's attention away from taking care of herself.
I pray that you take care of your needs and stay true to yourself while he sorts himself out. You also might benefit from posting this over at Friends and Family forum.
Wishing you much light ((())))