Scott, Thank you for the much needed advice. I have been praying for him and trying to be as encouraging and supportive as I can. I would like to walk up to him shake him and ask him what his problem is. I love the man that's for sure. But Thank God he went to work finally tues and again today. YAY. ANd he is going to a mens only meeting this sat. I hope he starts doing what he needs to do and go above and beyond where he was. Melissa