Newcomer, Please help/advise
Hi All,
I am the loved one of a previously loving and caring person who can drink until he passes out.
I love him dearly and want to help him but the months of hurt and upset have finally taken their toll on me and i feel that i should wave good bye to him which i don't want as i see the man in him occasionally that he previously was.
How do i help him without making myself ill in the process. Will he ever see what he's doing to himself/us instead of thinking that i'm soft and will allow this crap to go on forever?!!!