iceteaplease

Hi,

Have any of you had to co-habitate with your AH for economic reasons after filing a separation? Is it possible to maintain focus and sanity under those circumstances? While the agreement would give me financial protection and get the money going toward the bills and kids instead of to bars, I am concerned that living together would prevent AH from facing the true consequences of his drinking, as he would still benefit from the cooking, cleaning, childcare and so on that I naturally provide.

Thank you so much for your wisdom.