I hear you Harry, but since I have no time to get to a meeting before the date tomorrow, I asked on here.
For me, I don't feel comfortable changing venues. I need to be strong enough to resist without having to get everyone I know to accomodate me.
I am not slamming your advice. But any resturant worth a grain of salt serves liquor and I need to learn how to say no regardless of the circumstances, as difficult as that may be....