sigh.. ok.. thanx yall, once again for the advice. I am the type of person that wears my feelings on my sleeve, AND my face, so this is REALLY going to be hard. His office is next to ours, but unless I go talk to my boss, I DON"T have to see him. GRRRRrr.. I HATE having to avoid someone! He is 42, the bar maid is ONLY 24, and he is telling everyone how much better she is than I am. WHAT a jerk! Yes, THANK GOD I got away from him..