does this situation feel familiar to you? do you recognize any of his behaviors, actions, words, from when you were in active addiction?
Good point! Whenever I have a resentment against someone, my AA sponsor asks me to remember how I treated people when I was in my disease. She calls it "righteous anger." To continue with my disease, I certainly did not treat people very well because it was "all about me." Sometimes we AAs like to block that out. Thanks for the reminder!