Well, I guess I'm trying to move on for good now. It has been an extremely unhealthy relationship, almost an addiction. I gave him so much, and all he did was lie. He admits he is a liar and a cheater, so I give him that. I just don't get how anyone can be so messed up. My new "rule" is I won't date anyone in the Program unless he's had one continuous year of sobriety and actually WORKING the Program (i.e., have done a 4th and 5th step at a minimum) WITH a sponsor.
When he got out of prison, he didn't go to a single AA meeting. When I sent him a sample 4th step in prison, he didn't say a word about it. I guess no bottom is too low for him. He seemed so dedicated to AA when we first met (unless that was a snow job too - - it probably was). I know he lied to the new girlfriend about me too. She is only going to get burned . . .