bamagirl, i say this with utmost love: take the "we" out of the recovery right now. do it for you.
add: I'm sorry, I didn't address your question. I'm not sure where you are, but you can try calling the local number for Al-Anon in your state and tell them your situation. You can also contact the nearest hospital and ask if there are any support groups.
I have been in tiny places all over the world and can find help. It might take a little work on your part, but it's out there. Also, how about individual counseling with a therapist?
Last edited by denny57; 10-22-2006 at 08:35 PM.