EEEK, another post. Sorry! But I need some of your expert advice on this rather OT subject.
Since I've been living in this city, I have had several guys talking to me. They have been in situations where I will see the person again (work, social groups, etc), so I can't just blow it off. What I'm wondering is what I should say to them. I don't want to say, "Oh, hey, by the way, I'm separated from my husband but married nonetheless, so don't talk to me" if they are really just talking to me as a friend. But if someone is interested in me, or might be, I don't want to continue talking to them under the guise of me being interested and available. Do you know what I mean??? I just think it sounds presumptious to say up front that I'm not available. What if they weren't interested in the first place? What if they just wanted to be friends? Any good upfront lines/answers for me??
