Hi Cubbie,
First of all, be proud of yourself for 12 days sober!
It is true that recovery often involves changes and sometimes major changes in our lives. If you have told your family ab out your problem and then will not accept the situation, you may have to distance yourself from them, at least for awhile. What I found when I began recovery, was that I started to recognize toxic people in my life. They began to stand out and I realized how harmful they were to me. I gradually removed every single one. I still speak to some of them, but there is no emotional connection anymore. I don't want it and I can't risk it. At the same time, wonderful people began to appear in my life. Of course I have met great people here at SR, but a few really amazing women appeared in my life. I think that's how the process works.
I don't think you need to make a decision about moving right away. Just take things slowly and look at people around you and see if they are people who care about you and people who can teach you things. Changing your outlook and attitude is the beginning of changing your life. But, don't feel that you have to tackle everything, all at once.