You might want to take in a few Alanon meetings.
Same 12 steps but our focus is on keeping the obsession off of "people, places and things"..and we all love Alcoholics.
Lots of double winners (AA and Alanon) out there so check it out.
I'm not a mind reader or do I have a crystal ball but he could be heading for a relapse..
Keep the focus on you and your sobriety..