Thank you for your kind words. I am going to join Alanon, but we don't have anything like CODA here as this is a small town. Have you gone through similar stuff? Right now hubby is passed out cold on the couch, just another day in the life. It is a very lonely life, but like you say I have to get on saving myself as I know my health is suffering, I feel as though I am changing and becoming more numb by the minute. But even though I know his blaming me for everything and why he drinks blah blah blah is not true and I am not responsible and tell myself that all the time, it is wearing me down. I thank you for responding and have definately reached the point of doing something for me.
Thanks.
