Hello
Oh yes! I have a suggestion for you sweetie. Get yourself into CODA so that you can work on your co dependency problem. DO NOT worry about HIS PROBLEM anymore not one second!
Take care of you !!!!!!! You are what is important. You have to learn that you are worth so much and you are worth to be loved and treated with respect and love. DO NOT wait until you old and life passes you by.
You DO NOT have to tolerate any abuse for another second!
To do something about this is very scary. Get support from your family and friends. Let them know what he is doing to you so it will be out in the open. Whoever is not going to be a support to you IGNOREA THEM.
This will be a long and scary journey for you and I promisse you that you are going to come out a hero in this.
You are enabling his dysfunction by allowing him to put you down. Take action! You will be amazed of the results.
God Bless ! Love and Hugs