Originally Posted by HeatherSpartan
I guess what I was looking for was some encouragment to be a good friend to him and maybe eventually (like after hes been sober for a couple years) then maybe i could start talking about getting back together.
Has he indicated in your conversations he intends to get sober? When? Or with your new Masters do you think you can convince him? If so, couldn't you do that over the phone?
If you are intent on going back to him, make sure you are comfortable with more cheating on his part, because if he is anything like my AH (who I am divorcing after 18 years) there will plenty of that, and more often as the disease progresses.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do.