Oh, you are wonderful! Thanks for talking to me. It helps so much to get the encouragement from those that have also "been there". And, to feel hope and re-enforce my decision. How important is it? I have minimized the importance of my needs/desires for too long. I do begin to feel optimistic with the thought of him leaving, but also watched him move stuff out of the garage today and felt so sad, but I think sad at the good things, then reminded my self of the big picture. Thanks.....