I so very much agree with
what Myles said. They really do reappear when you are starting to get strong. It's all a part of the game.
Prettywoman, I suggest you keep building a new life for you and your son. I think you are on the right track and there is no point in getting sucked back into the life you left behind.
I'm so glad to hear that your son is doing well. I bet he is just adorable.
Peace,
Gabe