You're right on many points, Patty. I also enjoy(ed) wine, don't really know why right now I just can't bring myself to drink it. Makes me the odd one out at a monthly wine dinner I go to LOL - but everyone's been great about it.
I'm not so much questioning my love, as what love meant to me, if that makes sense. I think my mind has worked in that direction after having to consider this very question that kipper asks.