For me, when I was going through similar emotions, it was partially due to the fact that I was grieving the loss of our togetherness. You see, drinking together is what we did as together time. Horribly unhealthy I know, but its what we did for a long time. I was sad because I could not see us doing things together.
In hindsight, I would take his recovery over sharing a bottle of wine any day any minute, any second.. its better to share a life with him than a bottle of wine.
