Originally Posted by minnie
Keeping quiet in your al-anon way?
Karen, what are you getting out of this relationship?
I mean not to be comfronting because then I would have to take the consequences. No matte what I say or do becomes twisted in his mind and I just suffer undue consequences so I stay silent for the most part.
Great question,,,, What I'm getting out of this relationship?
not sure anything. I can start from scratch. I goess it is my "codie" on what my AH would do if I really did leave. I know I'm not responsible. I worry what he may do to someone else after hurting himself along the way.
He owns guns, his bro was a cop who got killed years ago and has friends who are as bad as he is.
... the police cant do much unless there is a tragedy out there or I can call them when he is driving away intoxicated. But then they have to find him. Remember, these guys can sell refrigerators to eskimos.
OMG... when we write stuff down we actually start seeing past our walls we've built. Stuff becomes more effident to the point I'm starting to question myself. hmmm Not sure if i'm making any sense here.
karen xo