I wonder what it feels like to be intimate with anyone who is NOT drunk. When I married my husband I was 21 and he was the only man I have been with and he is almost always drinking and stinks of alcohol and it is almost like a chore to me. He does what he has to do and then smokes his cigarette and goes to bed. There is none of that stuff you see in the movies. Just ya know. Sorry I have no advice. I think I know what you are talking about. If not you can tell me to shut-up
