Now or never, day one So today is the day and I feel relieved. I chose this date as my quitting date and from today my life will get better. There's no alcohol in my house, had my last glass of wine and poured down the sink what was left in the house last night. It's not just about quitting it's about a whole new chapter of my life. I can make plans without having to factor in drinking days. I don't want to drink any more and I really feel that if I don't stop now my life is going to go downhill and I'm going to let the children down. I need to quit but more importantly I want to. Alcohol has no purpose or place in my life any more. So I'm signing up to sober October just to stop any questions from people and after that I will probably say I've decided I prefer not drinking. So in my head I need to keep reminding myself "I don't drink". I can't do the occasional drink, I need to be completely alcohol free. |
Rooting for you! |
Day one for me too...this weekend almost kill me...i really, really need to stop...ill try to keep up with you...wish you all the best. |
Great decision Longlady! Life really is better sober and wish you all the best xx |
Thanks. I feel that I need to get rid of my favourite wine glass too. I was looking at it this morning while emptying the dishwasher thinking to myself that I don't need this glass any more. I've got other different wine glasses it's just that particular one that's my glass and I worry that seeing it will be a trigger. I'll take it to the charity shop tomorrow or maybe I should put it in a bag and smash it so it's gone forever. |
Congratulations Longlady! It's a great day to get sober. Getting rid of a favourite drinking glass sounds very sensible. |
Originally Posted by Longlady
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Thanks. I feel that I need to get rid of my favourite wine glass too. I was looking at it this morning while emptying the dishwasher thinking to myself that I don't need this glass any more. I've got other different wine glasses it's just that particular one that's my glass and I worry that seeing it will be a trigger. I'll take it to the charity shop tomorrow or maybe I should put it in a bag and smash it so it's gone forever. |
I'm glad you're on Day 1! Great! I don't have any wine glasses in my home. We never serve alcohol here, so it's always a safe place for me. |
Glad the first day of a better life is here for you, Longlady! |
Hi there Longlady! I thrashed my favorite wine glass two days. I think that was a very good decision for me. I will see what other drinking paraphernalia I need to toss today too. Love my margarita glasses, but they have to go too. |
We will all be rooting for you! I vote smashing the glass too :) I can't actually smash mine as they're all high value themed tiki mugs etc (plus my husband is a drinker) so I opted for making other glasses more significant. Now I have a special cup for cola, one for milkshakes lol. |
Sending prayers for your strength for staying sober. I too found packing up my wine glasses and taking them to Goodwill gave me less of a desire to drink. |
yes, smash it to smithereens. there is value in symbolic gestures. and then you can go out and spend time finding the perfect mug for a great cup of hot chocolate or herbal chai:) |
Brilliant! Congratulations on your day one. Take good care of yourself 💗💗 |
A good post A good start Keep posting Support to you. |
you can do it! |
How’s it going, Longlady? |
Day two and It's been a trying day with family "dramas". Would usually be an excuse to open the wine but I haven't so feels good to say that. Have had to stop myself a few times today thinking that this is forever and getting a bit overwhelmed but I suppose after twenty years of this behaviour it does seem like a huge decision. Just thinking of today at the moment. |
Forever does seem like forever. And it did seem that way for me at the very beginning of my recovery journey some 28 yrs of one day at a time ago. Staying within the day or 24 hours a day made it easy so I wouldn't get to far a head of myself. Kept the day contained and life's big problems within the area I could handle and remain sober. As long as there was no alcohol in my home to reach for when life's daily problems got too trying and had my program of recovery as a guideline allowed me to continue to be successful in my own sobriety. I realized that life was gonna continue to be and I had to know how to deal with it without reaching for alcohol or any other unhealthy devices that would be harmful or dangerous to me and those around me. Addiction is absolutely serious and a huge problem for many. However, there are many who have been taught and have learned about it and have found a program of recovery who can live by, incorporating it in all areas of their lives to achieve health, happiness and honesty in all their affairs on a continuous bases one day at a time moving forward. It is comforting to know that no one ever has to go thru anything, especially learning to remain sober one day at a time, by ourselves again. SR is an awesome community of caring, supporting folks and one of many resources to add to your recovery tool box in helping you learn to remain sober one more day. |
Well done LongLady! |
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