Back to day 1 tomorrow as i finished the bottle What hurts the most is I let people down on here, I am so sorry |
Nope ! Your still here posting :-) You let no one down here,it's a slip,learn and let's go again ! If I had a pound for every slip ... Good luck ! :-) |
mummy to 2 the past is the past look at it as day WON just try and figure out what triggered it so you'll know how to deal with it . Don't worry what people think we've all slipped and probably felt the same way at least I know I have.At least your posting some just quit posting like I did for 6 months to a year at a time ,but continue reading here then all of a sudden it clicks and their back like me this is a great place for advice and wisdom of people that walked this path before us they understand as do I. I'm very glad you're here Day WON then before you know it with hard work you'll be Day none. |
You have inspired me to join....dont give up now. Mums together 😉 |
BTDT! You're still posting and you didn't STAY down! That's great. In the past I've relapsed and avoided SR for sheer embarrassment. Take pride in the fact that you're latching on to your recovery and not staying down. This alcoholism crap isn't for sissy's! Lol!! |
Keep fighting, strengthen you plan. What happen that you relapsed? |
Hi Mummy; I've been reading your threads since you joined and found them very inspiring and helpful-- especially the way you share stories and reach out so kindly to others. I think most of us have had the experience you just went through--going back after some great sober time and then beating ourselves up for it. I know I did, several times. In fact, I had nearly two years when I blew it the last time. I felt terrible, but vowed to learn from what happened and modify my plan for when I felt triggered to drink. Most importantly, I realized that last time that drinking had nothing good to offer me or my family. Just regret, pain, and guilt for a fleeting (and increasingly short) euphoria. I revised my plan, made a committment to myself, and now and I have almost two years sober yet again. The first sober time I had accumulated made it easier to get here this time. My whole outlook on life has changed. I now see myself as a sober person, not a drinker waiting to fall off the wagon. The same will be true for you. You can do this. Do it for you, and for your kids. My mother was never able to stop, and that tainted my whole childhood and frankly was the role model for my own adulthood. You and your family deserve better. You haven't let anyone down. You are here posting and you haven't quit quitting. That's a win in my book :grouphug: |
Thank you, I am too embarrassed too look at my posts as goodness knows what I wrote, but I am not giving up x |
I am not too sure what triggered it, but after a good nights sleep I will have a think and see what was going on in my head x |
Originally Posted by Mummyto2
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Thank you, I am too embarrassed too look at my posts as goodness knows what I wrote, but I am not giving up x I have read the threads. To be honest you posted very little. Most of the posts on there are just full of love, and people wanting to help by posting their experience, strength and hope. Honestly - you're already full of embarrasement anyway. You might as well read them so you get the positive as well as the negative from this xx |
Thank you Berrybean must do something as it just all happened so quick x |
Mummy, We have all been there. all of us. you can do this, if we did, you can. Not making light, cause its not light, but its do-able. I only got to know you during your slip and you have nothing to be embarrassed about -- you have a lot of friends here. I agree with Berry, as I always do, you should read them. There is a lot of love there. XXX |
Thank you Dropsie and nice to meet you x |
This is your recovery mummy.....this is your life. Your sobriety. It belongs to you and no one else. Not to me, not to ur neighbor, family or friends as selfish as it may sound. No one is gonna keep you sober but yourself along with the Willingness, Openmindedness and Honesty to do whatever you need to do to remain sober one day at a time. There are many recovery options available all who what to be successful in their own recovery/sobriety. You will have to find what works for you most of all. I can share with you that I didn't choose AA. My family did an intervention on me 27 yrs ago anf I was placed in a rehab facility to be taught about addiction which I had little to no clue what it was about. They broke it down for me to understand then gave me a program of recovery which was AA for me to learn step by step to incorperate in all my affairs once I was released. There were many suggestions passed on to me and I listened, learned, absorbed and applied all to the best of my sober ability. I'm successful in my recovery because I continue to maintain this effective program of recovery in my life each day. Once I received this guideline to living a sober life I then began to receive the gift of the Promises as written in the Big Book of AA. Like I shared before, this is what works for me, but you have to find something, a guideline, program to follow to help yourself remain sober and live a healthy happy successful life for you. If it means going into rehab, out patient, in patient, then by all means go, so you will get all the information about alcoholism and how it affects you from head to toe. Then a program of recovery to guide you every day, every step of the way. You don't have to be alone in this or by urself, but you have to do this for you. Remember, this is what works for me. :) |
Originally Posted by Mummyto2
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Thank you Berrybean must do something as it just all happened so quick x i told him to bugger off. about a month later, i had the F-its. i was goin to get a 12 pack. the only thing that saved me was takin a shower before i went to the store. in the shower i could see how insane the idea was. and eventually saw my sponsor was right. not only that, i had been working on that thought long before he told me that. pre meditaited because i wasnt doing anything for my recovery other than just going to meetings. i rested on my laurels. |
No need to apologise at all! Don't beat yourself up about this - I have recently relapsed. I went to have a couple of drinks, ended up plastered and not knowing where I was! Keep posting. |
We have all been where you are at. Give yourself a break and don't be hard on yourself! No one here judges you and only cares that you come away stronger and better than ever! We love you, Mummy! |
hey, hope youre feeling a little better today. Honestly I gave up so many times and slipped so many times, and went through the feelings. I think we need those slips to learn something from them, then add that into our plan. The more we get back up, dust ourselves down and continue in our journey, we are one step closer than we were before. Even though our sober count starts again. Then someday, it just sticks for good. You have done so well and been a big part of a lot of peoples experience on SR. Keep at it, learn from the slip and you are still succeeding. much love |
I thought about you a lot last night. I'm so happy you're back! |
This is not about us! This is about you! We are here for you and to support you! We are a family and we will be here no matter what! |
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