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IHaveFaith2016 10-16-2016 07:16 AM

Day 1
 
I can't live this way anymore. I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired. Too many years of this foolishness. Always depressed, mad, sick. So many missed opportunities because of this poison- that I fed myself. Today has to begin with change. I need to hold myself accountable. I'm the only one who can make this happen. I'm so grateful for this site and all of you.

tekink 10-16-2016 07:19 AM

Welcome to SR and good luck!

There's really only one thing you can do, and that's to simply stop using whatever said poison is. (it sounds a lot easier than it is but you'll find lots of supporting folks around here).

:c009:

ChloeRose63 10-16-2016 07:22 AM

Stay with us...the next few days might be difficult but you can and will get thru them. We are hear for support and PM me if you need a friend:) ♡CR

Delilah1 10-16-2016 08:58 AM

Hello and Welcome to SR!

It's great that you are here this morning. The first few days can be a little tough, but they definitely get easier so hang in there.

Spend some time reading on SR and also pop into the October 2016 thread, you will find others who have also decided to stop drinking/using this month.

Dee should be along to share a great link about recovery plans.

Stick around here today for support. You can do this, and I promise it is worth it!

Mattq2 10-16-2016 09:08 AM

Welcome SR. My first few days I read or posted here everyday, especially during the times in the evening when I would normally be drinking. I really found great strenght and inspiration from the " stories of recovery" forum. We are here if you need us.

blackened83 10-16-2016 09:29 AM

Welcome to SR...
This is great that you made up your mind. Stay strong.
Write whenever you feel like giving up. And if you decide to give up just remember why you are trying to quit in the first place..
Good luck

CaptainHaddock 10-16-2016 10:19 AM

Welcome to SR and well done for joining. There are thousands and thousands of us here that all want the same thing as you do.

I was on day 1 two weeks ago. Take it one day at a time and you will see it starts getting better very quickly.

january161992 10-16-2016 10:26 AM

the gift of desperation


Originally Posted by IHaveFaith2016 (Post 6175671)
I need to hold myself accountable. I'm the only one who can make this happen.

thats why i always have 2 formal service positions at meetings where i am accountable

accountability means i will be missed by people if i dont show up

:tyou

PurpleKnight 10-16-2016 10:38 AM

Welcome to the Forum IHaveFaith!! :wave:

Anna 10-16-2016 10:49 AM

Yes, you do need to hold yourself accountable. Ultimately, it's up to each of us to make the decision to stop drinking and to live a sober life. As your user name says, have faith that you can do this and we are here to offer support.

Barbs 10-16-2016 10:54 AM

Welcome! I wish I new about SR 6 weeks ago when I decided to stop drinking. It would have made those first days a bit easier. Good luck!

Dee74 10-16-2016 02:40 PM

Welcome aboard :)

Hevyn 10-16-2016 02:43 PM

Great to have you with us, IHaveFaith. I was so relieved when I joined SR - I was no longer alone with my struggle.

It's ironic that the thing we use to make ourselves feel better ends up causing such misery & pain. What was once fun completely ruled my life in the end. I was so thankful to get free of it. You will do this.

IHaveFaith2016 10-17-2016 04:55 AM

Thank you all for responding.:grouphug:

ChloeRose63 10-17-2016 05:15 AM

How are you feeling this morning? Hope you are giving your body good nutritious food and staying hydrated, too!♡CR

IHaveFaith2016 10-17-2016 05:17 AM

Hi ChloeRose,
Today I have hope. I'm heading out for an early walk. Have been taking vitamins and lemon water. I have to do it this time at have another day 1. When I get home, I'm going to put a plan together.

ChloeRose63 10-17-2016 05:29 AM

Sounds perfect! I drank lots of coconut water. It has electrolytes and also lowers blood pressure. I get bouts of anxiety and it calms my nerves along with calming teas. First step is to identify your triggers. Did you ever hear of "H.A.L.T"?

FreedomHorse 10-17-2016 06:06 AM

Hi IHaveFaith2016. Glad you are here!

IHaveFaith2016 10-17-2016 07:27 AM

Does anyone have the link for setting up a plan and HALT?

Volshen 10-17-2016 12:56 PM

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ery-plans.html

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-cravings.html


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