Dog days are over Greetings all, I have been reading and posting on SR since January 2015, but I rarely start my own thread. Perhaps I am sleep deprived now, but I feel like starting one now. Today I have exceeded 170 days without an alcoholic drink. Never, at any point in my adult life, did I imagine that it was possible to go this long without consuming some form of mind altering substance. As I look back, I realise I have spent most of my adult life engaging in a process of self medication. It started with heavy cannabis use, which became daily, which became first thing in the morning until last thing at night. I can't believe I completed my degree, as I was essentially intoxicated throughout. I then progressed to alcohol and other drugs, then mostly alcohol, with some brief periods of reprieve. I used substances to medicate and tranquillise anxiety, depression, fear, and sadness. I also drank when I was happy. I connected substances to work, study and leisure activities. Alcohol became inextricable with family, friendships, relationships, even children. I self medicated as I made my journey through social space-time, tranquillising the moment-to-moment units of raw experience. This process of medication transformed my experience to madness, as I damaged others around me and damaged myself. Although at 170 days and with a questionable expectation that everything should be normal by now, this is still early days. I am trying to learn to deal with reality, other people, and myself, as my sober self. Sometimes anxious, sometimes depressed, sometimes happy, sometimes connected to others. Dog Days are Over is a song by Florence and the Machine, which has been playing in my mind all day. I encourage you to listen to it and it's wonderful lyrics. My best wishes to you all, B |
Great thread Mr. Behan! Congrats on 170 days. I had you in my thoughts this week to send you a note asking specifically how you are. You post but not directly about how you are handling things. Now I know.! :D Little B arrives in short order. A new place. A new sober life. Stay strong. Really glad I got to know you! Ken |
yep, I agree with weasel... congrats on 170 days and counting, glad you are with us. FATM opened for U2 in Lansing at spartan stadium a few years ago. They finished with dog days are over... U2 was pretty good 2. Coolest visual setup ever this 360 deg monstrosity video display - awesome... |
Congrats on 170 days sober! :scoregood |
Way to go!! Here's to living life on life's terms... |
This long term sobriety stuff is hard. We built our whole world's around self medication and one day the medication was gone. If I'm not the person I was, who the heck am i? For me I take it a day at a time. Each challenge is a learning experience and I do the best I can. One thing that has helped a lot is AA. I see how other people deal with life and it gives me a road map of how I should deal with things. Each day I get just a little bit better and for me that is as good as it gets |
170 Days is fantastic!! :You_Rock_ |
You've got a lot of insight, Behan. Congrats on 170 days and counting! Thanks for sharing with us! |
You're doing fantastic, Behan :) Yeah, still fairly early. Things will ease up. Keep on going. Love Florence and love that song :) Now I'm gonna have to play it. |
Great job on 170 Behan! |
Awesome job on 170 days sober exellent post Behan |
Congrats on 170 days! That's a great accomplishment. I'm absolutely the biggest fan of Florence you'll ever meet :-) Did you know she had drinking issues herself? |
Thank you one and all for your kind words and encouragement. It means the world! :) |
Thank you for that really interesting and encouraging post Behan. I'm really enjoying seeing things go well for you Oh and congratulations on 170 days |
Congrats on 170 days Behan - and thanks for the thought provoking post :) D |
Congratulations on 170 days sober! I too love that song and will listen to it tonight. And tomorrow upon fist waking up so I can give myself a little happy jump start to my day. Thank you for your post. |
Great song, and so appropriate. Behan, we are proud of your accomplishment - 170 days is fabulous. Even better things are yet to come. |
Good read! Nice one :) |
Thank you! She sounds a lot like Annie Lennox |
Behan, congratulations on 170 days though it will be 171 by the time you read this. I think your post is great insight and I do enjoy that Florence & the Machines song. |
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