There are 2 internal voices at work here. Your AV, and the other little voice is you.

Listen wisely to the right voice. ;-)

Lots of great advice here. One of my friends is having a girls night next week, wine, gossip, chick flicks..... As much as I am up for the gossip and chick flicks, I know I need to avoid the wine portion of the event. I said I was unable to attend. I don't trust myself yet.