What was so terrible about the job interview, Tetra.? Maybe a clue in how you reacted to this that led up to the decision to drink. Perhaps the shame was already there? We can be so hard on ourselves. |
You see more negative than positive in yourself....we don't. It happened. Pick yourself up and move forward, don't dwell. Stop crying over it, you will be stronger next time. |
How was your weekend, Tetra? |
Hi tetra, I'm sorry you had a bad interview and I'm sorry you drank. Hop back on. Don't beat yourself up. Before my last relapse I was headed in that direction because I stopped doing the things I knew I needed to do. It wasn't a single bad event alone that pushed me to drink. That was only the reason I needed. It was at that point I added SR to the other things I was doing and its working for me better this time. Tweak it and work it. You had seven months. A lot of people don't even get that. |
All the guilt and shame in the world won't undo the past Tetra. Use that energy to make the most of your today :) D |
It never seemed that I had much choice about my feelings (intrigued that you asked īshouldīi feel . . . ī). however, I spent a lot of time dwelling upon and analysing them. Didnīt help me much - or at all, ever. I was able to see things more roundedly only after I removed alcohol from the equation. of course, this seemed extremely difficult at first but (I have come to believe) in the end, we choose this view. I tend to regard alcohol as just something I donīt have to do anymore. |
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