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amp123 07-15-2014 01:27 AM

Irritable and up tight
 
Hi everyone! I'm just starting day 6 and I'm doing ok...except in the evenings (times when I'd usually be having a few drinks). Any little thing that happens after around 7 or 8pm is likely to drive me crazy. It's not really fair on my family and holding my breath and counting up to 10 doesn't seem to help at all! I guess this will pass. Hoping so!!! Any tips for for the meantime?! I think I (and everyone around me) would really appreciate it!!!

PurpleKnight 07-15-2014 02:52 AM

Great job on Day 6!! :)

For me I needed to plan new activities into my evenings, simply sitting thinking about drinking wasn't a good idea, what do you want to achieve with your newfound Sober evenings?

You can do this!! :)

trachemys 07-15-2014 02:54 AM

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ForMeForThem 07-15-2014 02:57 AM

Hi amp - Congrats on 6 days. Emotions are all over the place in early sobriety especially at those trigger times. I still have to pay attention to it now at almost 9 months. It does get better, but it takes time. Give it time and in the meantime, I found making sure I wasn't hungry or thirsty at that time of day helped. Also, distract yourself...go for a walk, turn on some music, read a book, watch tv or a movie, login to SR, etc. Stick with it, the benefits you and your family will receive will far outweigh this "crazy" period.

Tonymblue 07-15-2014 04:20 AM

Congrats on day 6. Someone told me powdered glutamin in a drink like tang. Dont know if its placebo, but it seems to help. Keep it up.

instant 07-15-2014 04:25 AM

Every day you get stronger. Forarmed is forwarned. It gets easier, but my emotions, sleep and enetgy etc were unstable for a good few months

firstymer 07-15-2014 06:26 AM

Remember to avoid the triggers of HALT. Hungry, angry, lonely, tired. Good luck.


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