15 years of HELL!!!! Hi, my name is "Durf" and I'm in day 6 of detox and it's hell!! Let me give you a little background first. I was a over the road tractor trailer driver since 1984, in 1999 I was involved in a MV accident, (Not my fault) with fatalities. I was also pronounced dead at the scene. Luckily when they were putting me into the bag and into the ambulance I must have moved and a paramedic caught it. I don't remember anything, this was all told to me by the hospital. I snapped my neck in 3 places, broke my back, had many, many broken bones and contusions. I was in a coma for over 3 weeks and endured many surgeries. I now have 4 plates in my neck, 3 plates in my spine and two rods, and over 40 screws. I was only 43 and my life was over. After over 2 years of recovery and learning to walk again I was on a regiment of narcotic pain meds. You name it, I took it, and got hooked on Oxycontin and a Morphine cocktail. I became "addicted" to it and was abusing it too. About 8 years ago my doctor switched me over to Methadone, BIG mistake!!! I was on 140 mgs per day. It worked to keep the pain at bay, but it was a very dirty drug. Over the years I had a heart attack from withdrawals, it ruined my gallbladder, which was removed, my liver, my bile ducts, pancreas, and kidneys also suffered. Plus I would go into withdrawals for no reason at all in places where I was in public and with no meds. Some mornings I would wake up in painful withdrawals, it was a nightmare!! Now I'm 58 almost 59 and I wanted off all kinds of narcotics. So back in March of 2014 I had switched doctors, (we moved) and he would NOT prescribe methadone for me. I asked him to recommend a local pain clinic and he did. The doctor there saw what I was on and said it's not what I should have been on. What was I suppose to know, I only took what my other doctor prescribed. I told him I wanted off all narcotics and go on something non narcotic to control my chronic pain. Well he started me on Suboxone strips, 2mg/0.5mgs twice a day to get me off the "Done". After two weeks he upped it to 4mg/strips. I hated them with a passion, but it was keeping the withdrawals away for the most part, but now I was on another narcotic. I told my doctor I wanted off of it, so he weaned me back down to the lower dose. I then stopped taking it all together last Wednesday and today is day six of no narcotics and I feel like crap!!! My pain doctor gave me some "comfort" meds, but they don't work all that well. I was also using medical marijuana, but that's also an opiate, so it was like what am I suppose to do?? I have the same symptoms as many of you that have or are going thru what I am. How long is this going to last? I feel totally wiped-out, my stomach is in knots and I'm dehydrated, even though I drink as much water and Gatorade as I can. I try to eat, but nothing goes down too good. I'm scared I'm going to have another heart attack and forget sleeping, it doesn't work. My mind is racing like crazy and my skin is burning. My comfort drugs my doctor gave me is Ondansetron, Baclofen, and Clonidine. I also take Lorazepam to help with the nerves. How much longer is this going to last???? I don't think I can take it much longer......... Thanks for letting me vent, it feels good to get it out and off my mind. Sorry my post was rather long, but in my case it not about "addiction", but necessity to control chronic pain........... DURF :( P.S.; My doctor wants to put me on Cymbalta, but I've heard nightmare stories about that med too. |
when will you be out on the truck again? |
Vent away Durf....that is why we are here as we can often relate to what you are going through. And it sounds like you have been through a lot! I've known folks who have used medical marijuana; it works for some and others it doesn't. Marijuana isn't an opiate...it is actually in it's own drug category but I would suggest talking with your doc about that. I take Cymbalta and have for many years. It helps with my pain as well as with my anxiety. But that is me. We are all different. Best thing to do is stay in touch with your doc which it sounds like you are. As you know, often folks who have to use pain medication develop addictions so I think you are in the right place to learn more and gather information as well as support. Glad you are here! |
Welcome to SR, Durf. I don't know all that much about being addicted to pain meds. My drug of choice was high test alcohol. There's a whole lot of folks here that have a lot of wisdom about addiction. There's even a pain management forum here. I'm sure you will find lots of support here. You definitely have my support. :) |
Hey Durf, Welcome to the Forum!! you'll find loads of support here!! :wave: |
Originally Posted by anykey
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when will you be out on the truck again? And thanks for everyone else who posted. It's support like this that really helps. Years ago I was part of another support group, but the "Trolls" took over so I stopped. This seems like a good place to start over for support!!! Thanks again, Durf |
welcome DURF, sorry to hear what you have to endure, sharing your thoughts and talking about can help. hopefully the doctors will figure it out and get you free from all those pills. hang in there. |
Durf, it sounds like you have been through a lot. I was addicted to hydrocodone for 20 years. I am 18 days clean today. The last two years of my addiction I took 12-14 at a time, as many times a day as possible. Sometimes up to 50 if I could get an rx. There was no limit to how many I would take. The WDs get better. It takes time. You have to be strong. It's hard. Fight for it! I am here with you. |
Originally Posted by DURF
(Post 4692223)
I would rather be part of society than sitting back and watching my life fade away. Regarding your quote above, be aware that there are many disabled or otherwise physically restricted individuals who do live full lives and participate in society quite well despite their physical disabilities. It is a challenge to be certain, but life is full of challenges. SR is a great place to learn, it's my main support mechanism and I hope you can find what you need here. |
Hi DURF, welcome to SR. Vent all you like :) |
Originally Posted by ScottFromWI
(Post 4692319)
Welcome DURF. Sounds like perhaps you have found a new doctor that is going to be more helpful, meds are tricky to be certain. Regarding your quote above, be aware that there are many disabled or otherwise physically restricted individuals who do live full lives and participate in society quite well despite their physical disabilities. It is a challenge to be certain, but life is full of challenges. SR is a great place to learn, it's my main support mechanism and I hope you can find what you need here. Let me explain my "disability", I'm able to walk with a cane or a walker, so I guess I'm more handicapped than disabled. I can't cut my lawn or do yard work, but I do try to do something. I can drive a car and I do enjoy driving my GTO muscle car as often as I can. My wife and I go on vacations, but are limited to what we can do, so we usually take a cruise. As a matter of fact, we just got back from one before I started my detox. But again, I am limited to what I can do, but lucky that I can do some of the things I used to enjoy.
Originally Posted by Mamahawk
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Durf, it sounds like you have been through a lot. I was addicted to hydrocodone for 20 years. I am 18 days clean today. The last two years of my addiction I took 12-14 at a time, as many times a day as possible. Sometimes up to 50 if I could get an rx. There was no limit to how many I would take. The WDs get better. It takes time. You have to be strong. It's hard. Fight for it! I am here with you. Yesterday was day 7 and the worse day of my detox. I ended up in the ER yesterday afternoon and was told I can not just stop and detox like I was. I was put back on Suboxone and within an hour I was back to my old self and feeling much better and NOT in pain!!! Not only was I suffering from the withdrawals, I was also in severe pain from my neck and down the right side of my body from my injuries. I guess the chronic pain will never go away and I'm going to have to be on some type of pain medication for life. I'm very disappointed, but glad my suffering is over for the most part. I go and see my spine doctor tomorrow and we are going to work out some type of plan to keep the chronic pain away. I have my medical marijuana license, but the state I live in only has 2-3 dispensaries and are in the other end of the state. I can deal with that, but can't deal with the horrific chronic pain without some type of relief. Let me ask you something Mamahawk, after day 20 now, how do you feel? Are you still hurting? And if not, how long did it take for you to feel somewhat like your old self? In a way I feel like I failed, but then again the pain is a powerful argument to keep myself on some type of pain relief........... I'll still keep coming here for help and to help anyone who has the same condition I have. Being in severe chronic pain being masked by narcotic pain meds is a very tricky situation. One that I really gave no thought to until the drugs were gone from my body. I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place with no where to go............... Thanks to ALL!!!!! Durf :tyou |
Oh Durf! What a long struggle!!! I didn't struggle with meds, it's the booze that got me. I would make sure you are in close contact with your doc, especially since your heart attack history. I am glad you have your wife. She sounds wonderful. I hope you find support here that you need, it's a great place! |
Originally Posted by EJ43
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Oh Durf! What a long struggle!!! I didn't struggle with meds, it's the booze that got me. I would make sure you are in close contact with your doc, especially since your heart attack history. I am glad you have your wife. She sounds wonderful. I hope you find support here that you need, it's a great place! And yes "EJ43" I found my life's partner in high school in 1973, we were married in 1975, she was 19 and I had just turned 20. We've been thru it all together and I can never imagine my life without her!!!! Thanks for the kind words!! Durf |
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