It stops today! Hi folks. Time to end my drinking. I cannot control it. I had stopped for two weeks about a month ago, but made the mistake of walking into the liqupr store. Then it started all over. Tired of being sick & tired. I've been keeping it hidden from my family and co-workers. The money I've spent on booze is staggering. I am lying to myself and my family. I need help. |
Orion there is lots if help here.... Welcome! Do you have a plan or family support? |
No plan. My family thought I had quit last summer. I had a for maybe a month but started again. I've become pretty slick at hiding it, much to my shame. I've quit a few times since, dumping out bottles vowing never to drink again. But I always get reeled back in. Most of my weekends are spent half-in-the-bag and I still was functionable. Its a long story. But I would suppose it is for everyone. |
I dranks almost nightly wine it wasn't always that way snuck up on me. I have only been sober 43 days but I must say it feels great. I haven't done AA or any organized recovery method mostly using this site. The fact that my husband knows keeps me from slipping accountability is a huge key in success. Maybe opening up to a close love one would free you and make forgetting your goals a little harder! Wish you all the best |
O90, You have taken the first step, you are at the beginning of a tough journey. The destination is fantastic but it will be a rough road at first. The end is worth the means though. Best wishes to you. I hung out/lurked here several times a day here at first and still check in pretty much daily. Never would have made it without the support and reinforcement I've found here on SR. It is a big help to know that you are not ever going to be alone on this trip. Ask and you will find someone who will listen and give you support/encouragement who has been right where you are anywhere along the way. Oh and WELCOME!!!! |
Welcome Orion. You'll find the support and encouragement you're looking for here. You won't regret making this life changing decision. I think you should be proud for admitting what it's doing to you. Some never see it, and spend many years trying to manage their drinking - with disastrous results (like me). Keep reading and posting here. You'll see you aren't alone and we all understand. Glad to have you with us. |
Thanks for the warm welcome. As mentioned, in late April I stopped for two weeks. After the two weeks I thought I would be able to control it so I kept some scotch to sip on for that special occassion. I was wrong. I hammered most of the bottle in one Friday night and was at the state store first thing Saturday morning for the biggest, cheapest jug of canadian whisky I could find. Nursed that bottle for the remainder of the weekend. Like I said, we all could tell stories. Except now I feel like I can tell them to someone who understands. |
Welcome! I also planned to quit on my own so many times, and like you even dumped some out. Of course I just replaced it later the same day. It wasn't until my husband told me what I already knew...he thought I had a drinking problem. With that, I really did quit, because now I do have accountability. It really does help. Best wishes, and hope you stay with us! |
:welcome to a very supportive place.:) SR is always here so there's someone online at all times. Very helpful to me if I'm awake in the middle of the night. You won't regret going sober. I only regret I didn't do it sooner. |
Welcome Orion :) no matter what method you eventually end up using, I think you need to be prepared to make a lot of changes and find whatever support you need to make this stick. There's a lot of support here :) D |
Welcome! It sounds like you're ready to stop drinking and we are here to offer support. As Dee said, it takes more than just stopping drinking though. It takes a lot of changing as well. |
Thanks again for the help. I want to make this coming holiday weekend my first sober one in nearly 12 years! |
Welcome Orion :) My advice is not to look towards the weekend. Try one day at a time. A simple 24 hours. I know for me I was setting myself up for failure every time I tried to look to far ahead and for me tomorrow is to far ahead. |
Day 2.... going okay. Taking one day at a time. |
Great job! |
Originally Posted by GracieLou
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Welcome Orion :) My advice is not to look towards the weekend. Try one day at a time. A simple 24 hours. I know for me I was setting myself up for failure every time I tried to look to far ahead and for me tomorrow is to far ahead. |
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