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In making sure not to take someone elses inventory, because it's not my place to do so, or, I have no right too, I learned how awkward it was to be amongst those that drank around me when Im sober, because they are under the influence of a controlled substance and are not themselves. To avoid feeling uncomfortable in situations like that, Im glad we have choices we can make to take care of ourselves and protect our recovery to the best of our ability. I can choose to not be there and thus avoid feeling uncomfortable. In other words, if I dont want to feel uncomfortable in any situation then choosing something else that will be positive and healthy for my mind, body and soul will be further me in my recovery each day i remain sober. So can you. :) |
you're awesome! |
I was impressed by your 171 days, but am even more impressed that you attended the party, resisted temptation, and realized it'll take one step at a time. Staying sober was your priority, and once you can handle the get-togethers more easily you'll be able to socialize more. I like that you called it a skill too-it is something you can learn, as I'm finding out from others here with many days under their belts! |
Way to go :ring I find parties with the majority of people drinking/drunk quite boring now... I find myself thinking... was I like that???? Then remembering some silly moments in my drinking life that reminded me that... yes I was ;-) I have a much better time playing tennis on Friday nights with my tennis league and going out for dinner together afterwards than I ever could at a party filled with drunks ;-) Keep up the great work :You_Rock_ |
Well done, HealthyFood. You did exactly what you planned to do. You are right to be more than a little bit pleased with yourself. |
Originally Posted by Healthyfood
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What a night. Just wanted to share with you. There were so many bottles opened in front of me, I lost the count how many! Everyone drunk yesterday. I was offered soooo many times, I kept saying no thanks. Eventually I got myself a glass and poured my energy drink and I looked as everyone else with something in my hand. Very nice night out, but too much booze. I wish I was a little bit more social and chatted more with people I just met, but being sober its a new skill for me to learn. Its day 173. Thank you all for supporting me. |
Gosh, being chatty in large groups I didn't know well was a new skill for me too. I am still not thrilled in that situation, but I'm okay with that. I'm glad you got through it. |
Awesome!!!! |
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