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kiki26 01-13-2019 01:54 PM

Wow, this was so inspirational to read through. Congrats on 7 years! How amazing!
Thank you for posting all these years!

DarkDays 08-24-2019 09:47 AM

2,781 days.
Rock solid sober
NEVER ever get cravings.
Run more than ever.
Oh how much of a changed person I am,I hope you are all well? I post little as its just not in my thought process anymore :)
Will certainly post on 8 years in a few months.
Grind it out,you have to get through the early days otherwise you keep having to go the the yukky early days. Peace.

BackandScared 08-24-2019 10:35 AM

As many before me, I want to thank you for updating this thread. It is really helpful for those among us going through early days. Looking forward to your 8th year update.

Dee74 08-24-2019 03:56 PM

Always good to hear from you DD :)

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NicLin 08-24-2019 11:53 PM

Bigger, Brighter, Better Days shall prevail!!! So thankful for your story, as heartbreaking as it was, your resolve within it was deafening!!!

Happy for you and I hope your daughter is ok...

NicLin 08-24-2019 11:55 PM

Ahh rookie mistake lol I just realized that this thread is a time capsule of your amazing adventure....

Amazing!!!

Hodd 08-25-2019 02:08 AM

I thought you were being a bit harsh on yourself in that first post. I’m sure we all had that feeling that drinking comes before everything.

Thanks for still posting after so many years sober. I’m guessing the original post was your very first post here, so it’s brilliant you stuck at it.

Glad things worked out for your daughter too. I’m sure you can take a lot of credit there.

brighterday1234 08-25-2019 06:24 AM

Thank you for keeping SR updated on your sobriety; recovery is possible and a wonderful thing 🙏

DarkDays 08-27-2019 12:28 PM

Thanks
 
Thank you all and especially to Dee👍
Daughter fantastic now finished her Masters and now working in a top London museum.
She also does not drink because I encouraged her from younger age try not follow the crowd and be cool be sober.

Thanks again !

DarkDays 01-11-2020 11:35 PM

Morning all.

8 years stone cold sober !

I cannot believe it is 8 years since I came here and posted my original post, unbelievable! I am a different person totally now in every aspect. Need to thank this forum/Dee and many others that got me on my way 8 years ago.

Honestly mind over matter, grind it.

Love you all.

Dee74 01-11-2020 11:41 PM

Congrats on 8 years DD!

Steely 01-12-2020 12:21 AM

What a fantastic outcome.

Inspirational.

And glad your daughter is now well.

snitch 01-12-2020 12:49 AM

Beautiful, inspiring story. Including the fact that your daughter is alcohol free too , what a blessing for her to be able to live her whole life to the fullest. I absolutely love this thread!!!

Reid82 01-12-2020 01:37 AM


Originally Posted by DarkDays (Post 7356822)
Morning all.

8 years stone cold sober !

I cannot believe it is 8 years since I came here and posted my original post, unbelievable! I am a different person totally now in every aspect. Need to thank this forum/Dee and many others that got me on my way 8 years ago.

Honestly mind over matter, grind it.

Love you all.


Well done on 8 years! I was at the height of my addiction at that time (2012) so I always feel a connection when people mention that time period. :You_Rock_

Dropsie 01-12-2020 01:50 AM

DD,

Every time I see this thread I read your original post again.

You have helped so many people my friend.

Keep on keeping on.

X

Surrendered19 01-12-2020 05:34 AM

Your story is amazing DD. I am living in Day 53 here and it really helps us newbies to hear from you long-term sober vets. Your first post was so hard for me to read because I did versions of that so many times. I don't want to forget those times but I hope the guilt and shame abates over time. Thank you so much for posting on your 8 year mark. Wow. I cannot even get my head around 8 years.

brighterday1234 01-12-2020 06:45 AM

Congratulations on 8 years sober and thanks for continuing to update the thread!

sugarbear1 01-12-2020 10:54 AM

Congratulations!! We may vacate from SR a bit (and create a sober life) & remain sober, too cool....

Callas 01-12-2020 11:02 AM

Wonderful story. Thank you.

DarkDays 01-12-2020 11:40 AM

You will
 

Originally Posted by Surrendered19 (Post 7356966)
Your story is amazing DD. I am living in Day 53 here and it really helps us newbies to hear from you long-term sober vets. Your first post was so hard for me to read because I did versions of that so many times. I don't want to forget those times but I hope the guilt and shame abates over time. Thank you so much for posting on your 8 year mark. Wow. I cannot even get my head around 8 years.

Was same for me,if 10 years ago you said to me you are never going to drink again oh boy I would have laughed my head off at the thought of no booze again, now I cannot imagine the drudgery of having to do it again,you gotta grind it out through the tough days. Play the tape forward it always delivers the same ****, yes being sober can sometimes feel like **** but hey that’s normal you don’t feel good everyday,that’s life !

Never go back no matter how hard you may find it in early day’s,because you will have to go through the early days yet again :)

Not drinking AlcoHELL is simply liberating, it buys time.


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