Do you, or did you, think someone is weird if they don't drink? Did it matter to you?

It never mattered much to me, I don't pay too much attention to what others do. But no matter... All of this BS from your husband is probably fear based. His life changes too and he may not know how to handle it yet... That's his job, not yours, to get over it.

Your job is to quit drinking and get recovered. Period.

Keep posting. :)