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Smyle 01-30-2007 06:31 PM

I will go see her tomorrow...her H is in active addiction and is of no help...


he is a pharmacist I used to work with ...so sad for them....

does anyone else feel totally alone...like with their H ,,,comes home and is doing his own thing ????

I am so alone here...I mean I have my kids and pets but they are not usualy up for idle chatter ....

scootinbabe 01-30-2007 06:37 PM

oh totally beezy. my dh just got an ipod and i swear it's been about 10 solid evenings that he's disappeared to download music. granted, at least these are nights that he's actually home rather than at a meeting or work....it's 9:30 and he's still not home.

plus, we never seem to have "quality" time together without the kids.

that's why it's great when you all are around (((group hug)))

TamTam 01-30-2007 06:49 PM

Beezy- All I can say is Cancer Sucks!!! I am so sorry for them. Keep us posted.

I agree about the freedom that comes with letting people in on my 'sobriety secret'. I was so afraid to let anyone know. What would they think of me?.. As we have shared here, it's not of my business what you/they think of me...
Every time I told someone, more weight was lifted off my shoulders. Weirdest thing. So far, I have only had positive responses. I don't wear a sign on my forehead announcing it. I choose to tell people when the time feels right.

DH was scheduled to be gone until Friday, but he gets to come home tomorrow instead- that's good.

ayla zaire 01-30-2007 06:54 PM

i feel ya beezy......i never see mike, he just walked in the door, and now he's in bed.....it's no wonder we have issues......communicate? don't you actually have to see each other to do that???? of course he calls me 87 times a day from work.....but we talk about mortgages......btw....say a prayer....his promotion is going very well......knock on wood.....but the a' hole just screamed at me because i didn't put a pop in the fridge for him.....nice.....

i'm ready for this.....http://i129.photobucket.com/albums/p...2483633190.jpg

scootinbabe 01-30-2007 06:56 PM

oops--sorry i forgot to say sorry about your friend, beez. how far advanced is it, do you know? regardless, she'll need help with all those kids during her treatments. does she have a church or moms club that can help?'

scootinbabe 01-30-2007 06:57 PM

ayla...you crack me up! (as always)

scootinbabe 01-30-2007 06:59 PM

it snowed here today. enough to mostly cover the ground and it is sooo pretty. of course, i'm just hoping that school will cancel and we can stay home and play!! but it's probably not enough.

ah, well. there is still the weekend forecast calling for more. YAY! my youngest doesn't even remember snow.

ayla zaire 01-30-2007 06:59 PM

((((((beezy)))))) i love you, honey.....i'm so sorry about your friend....but breast cancer is the most researched, curable cancer there is......there is a lot of hope for your friend.......

TamTam 01-30-2007 07:00 PM

Didn't have a cold soda for him? Well, that is completely understandable, poor baby... It's too bad they don't have ice cubes in Ohio. I hadn't realized that until now..

ayla zaire 01-30-2007 07:00 PM

love you scoot.....

ayla zaire 01-30-2007 07:03 PM

mike says what's an icecube.....and it would help if i had a clean glass.....but now he can't talk, because i used thishttp://i129.photobucket.com/albums/p...2483633190.jpg....he's taking a little nap...hehe....

tam, i'm still cracking up.....

TamTam 01-30-2007 07:04 PM

:roflmao:

ayla zaire 01-30-2007 07:06 PM

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TamTam 01-30-2007 07:09 PM

It's only 10, but I think I'm calling it a night. Didn't sleep well last night.

Sleep well and sweet dreams.

xoxo love you T

scootinbabe 01-30-2007 07:13 PM

you guys are too funny. thanks for the love and the laughs---can never get too many!

ayla zaire 01-30-2007 07:14 PM

this girl is my hero....

http://i129.photobucket.com/albums/p...3263390677.jpg

scootinbabe 01-30-2007 07:15 PM

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it worked! it's Audrey Hepburn and Gregory Peck in Roman Holiday on a Vespa...

scootinbabe 01-30-2007 07:17 PM

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scootinbabe 01-30-2007 07:18 PM

sorry, don't have one with a frying pan--lol!

ayla zaire 01-30-2007 07:22 PM

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