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leviathon 12-10-2006 11:44 AM

Nicknames
 
Just something I've noticed, when people sign up here they often use names related to alcohol.

For me, because I was trying to change my behaviour away from alcohol, I chose a name that had nothing to do with alcohol. I am just wondering why people choose alcohol related names?

Secondly, I am wondering if having an alcohol related nickname may actually be a negative thing as you go through recovery?

Any thoughts?

Peace, Levi

Jersey Nonny 12-10-2006 02:12 PM

I understand what you mean, Levi; and, it beats the heck out of me. Maybe it's because they're so new they still identify more with the drinking than with sobriety.

The thing that has always bothered me is when someone refers to themselves as "a drunk" when they have been able to stay sober for a while. I certainly was a drunk; but, I'm not anymore, and don't want to still be thought of as one.

You'll notice my user name reflects my pride in being a Jerseyite. On another board, I use jerseynonny, because I like being identified as a nonny (grandmother) from New Jersey.

I guess there are those who would say, "What's in a name?" Personally, I think quite a bit.

aasharon90 12-10-2006 02:18 PM

aasharon90... nothing negative here
about my name.

I dont ever want to forget who i am
or where i came from.

Im not ashamed of the second chance
of life that AA has given me.

Im very grateful. : )


AA - Alcoholics Anonymous

Sharon- my own name

1990 - 8-11-90 the yr i got sober

Jersey Nonny 12-10-2006 02:27 PM

OOOPS! My user name here is "raerob", because I tried other combinations and they were already taken. Rae is my first name, Ro is for my middle name (Rosalee), and B is the initial of my last name.

That should do it.

hope3 12-10-2006 02:36 PM

Is the glass half empty or half full.
 
Dear Sharon, I'm Sharon too! Regarding your name and how new people percieve things when newly recovering.

To qoute you..... "aasharon90... nothing negative here
about my name.

I dont ever want to forget who i am
or where i came from."

The first time I came here and seen your name I was feeling pretty
negative and down. So when I saw your name, I interpreted to mean
ass sharon, even though it was aasharon. Its sad how the mind works
sometimes when we are in a funk.

Please take no offence. You have been an incredible inspiration to me, thank-you!

GlassPrisoner 12-10-2006 02:55 PM

I've used GlassPrisoner on various boards, and used it here also. It's based on a song by a progressive/metal band called Dream Theater titled "The Glass Prison". This song is actually part 1 of a unfinished work about their drummers recovery from alcoholism.

Here are the lyrics for those interested

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/d/dream+t..._10090134.html

miss communicat 12-10-2006 02:56 PM

lol~~~hope3!!!

Levi,

Veddy interesting thread!

My name has nothing to do with alcohol. Largely because I was either in total denial about being alcoholic initially, or, because I saw this forum more as a place to commuincate than anything else. Boy, did I underestimate SR!!

This forum offers so much more than anonymous online communication.

And, Miss Communicat, was also a joke...a play on words. It reflects my professional writer persona.

I'mready99 12-10-2006 03:02 PM

Thought provoking thread Levi...

On other boards I'm segram99. My first two initials and a variation of my last name. I thought coming here, segram is to close to the name of a liquor, so I changed it. Too each their own, I guess. Everbody's different in their thinking, and nothing wrong with that...

:)

One day at a time.

Steve

:)

aasharon90 12-10-2006 03:31 PM

I LOVE YOU HOPE...Sharon....lol aasharon does
look like ass,,,lol and believe me i feel and act
like one quite often...lol

I love my name Sharon....my parents named me
after a little brown hair brown eyed girl they saw
at a park before they had me....

And thats exactly what i am.... : ) Sharon stands
for something but dont know what it is at the moment.

Im pretty sure its cool... : )

It's nice to meet u Sharon and all the other Sharons
on board with us...We r SPECIAL..! lol

Yeah yeah yeah...im full of it....lol

Go figure...thats why im an alcoholic... lol

Midas 12-10-2006 03:54 PM

I chose the name Midas...for the golden color of BEEEEEEEEER. rofl.

juliee 12-10-2006 03:55 PM

Umm, my brain was too bogged down when I first found SR to put in a whole lot of thought. So I went with the logical choice for me...Juliee because Julie was already taken! It's all I could muster at the time.

aasharon90 12-10-2006 04:03 PM

Can u change ur name if u want to without starting all over again?

hope3 12-10-2006 04:08 PM

Whats in a name.
 
LOL AASharon. ROFL Midas, Is that true, naaaaaaaahhhhhhhh.

Thank-you for the :ValB005: :v8

There are no problems in life, only solutions.

leviathon 12-10-2006 08:00 PM

I've just noticed the various names, some have nothing to do with booze, others have everything to do with booze. I appreciate everyone's feedback.

For me, Leviathon is actually leviathan misspelled on purpose. The leviathan is a giant sea creature that is pursued by this relentless hero in the bible. My struggles to be me have often been huge and I have frequently been pursuing relentlessly my dreams so it seemed to fit.

Peace, Levi

chicago 12-10-2006 08:52 PM

my name is pretty self explanatory. i take great pride in being from Chicago. to me its the greatest city. Incredible skyline. 10,000,000 people in the chicagoloand area but the perfect medium between being too condensed and too spread out. beautiful neighborhoods. Rich in culture. Birthplace of House music. and of course Deep Dish PIZZA!!

oh yeah and 4000 meetings a week.

scootinbabe 12-10-2006 09:07 PM

hmmmm...take a guess about my "handle"
(i guess it could have been vespa girl or something similar)

no boozing just cruising on my nickname!

Steve58 12-11-2006 01:19 PM

This was interesting, I'm not all that creative, so I kept it simple with name and birth year.

Levi, I always wondered, just had not gotten 'round to asking you yet.
GP-Thanks for the song, heavy stuff, thats for sure!

Sharon, I'm quite sure you can, cause I know someone who did, but I dont know how much of your old identity you keep.

Take care, all!
S

gypsytears 12-12-2006 06:16 AM

I like this topic. The responses have been interesting.

My username? Nothing to do with alcohol. I was just feeling blue when I signed up.

Cecilia 12-12-2006 07:49 AM

Interesting thread. Im Cecilia.
My mother named me after St Cecilia. Trust me it doesnt fit. LOL


I have another question to add. I call my AH Elvis because he has left the building. What do you call yours besides AH.

Latte 12-12-2006 08:15 AM

Latte is my new favorite drink. I really like coffee. Good coffee.


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