Originally Posted by Hats
(Post 6689142)
Day 93, another 24 for me please |
Originally Posted by Kaneda8888
(Post 6689305)
Checking in for 24. The other day I sat on the bus and put my hand forward. Stared at it for a good while. It wasn't shaking. When I was drinking, it couldn't stop shaking. Sometimes simple things remind us of the beauty of sobriety. Congrats to the milestoners and prayers to those that are struggling Another 24 hours of serenity, loving kindness and sobriety ! Its 5:48am here ! Good stuff!!!!! ❤️ |
Originally Posted by venuscat
(Post 6689327)
Good on you darling Weev!!! Facing the financial crap is hard, and it's terrifying (well it was for me). I did it too in my first year of sobriety....I spoke to every single creditor, looked at the giant mess I was in, felt sorry for myself, felt disgusted that I was being self-indulgent, realised that I needed HELP, real help, program/recovery help to handle this stuff. And so I came here....and SR friends helped me. I thought I was going to jail....ask Nick....I thought that for years....all I could concentrate on was what would happen to Venus? Lordy, what an idiot I was. I was just scared and ashamed.....and I discovered lots of other people understood that, and had done similar things. Weev ~ just put one foot in front of the other honey. It will work out. Make the arrangements to pay stuff off if you need to, and then just let it go. :hug: We are alive. And kicking. That's pretty damn awesome as far I'm concerned. |
Originally Posted by WeaverBird
(Post 6689336)
Good Day to you Honey Love (((Venus((and Goat too))))) I know there's a wide and airy space between my ears peopled with unicorns and fairies, but I really CAN'T read an official looking letter. The font blurs and I start to madly shuffle pieces of paper and panic sets in. I will face the fear. I will face the fear. I will face the fear. Frankly, going to jail would be a relief because I wouldn't have to face the fear.... |
Originally Posted by Delilah1
(Post 6689352)
12:00 in California and checking in for another 24. Busy, but good start to the week. Although I didn't stick to Weight Watchers over Thanksgiving Inmanaged to stay at the same weight, and got back on track yesterday. My goal is to lose 4-5 pounds in the next three and a half weeks, and then maintain that through New Years. I want to lose another 13-15 pounds total, although ten is probably more realistic. Congrats to all celebrating a milestone today. Happy Tuesday to everyone else! ❤️Delilah |
Originally Posted by Delilah1
(Post 6689361)
That is an excellent reminder. I love the feeling of first waking up and knowing when I get out of bed the only worry I have is possibly being a little tired, no headache, nausea, foggy head. |
Originally Posted by Delilah1
(Post 6689363)
I had to deal with financial stuff as well. We currently have a 1250 a month payment, and I believe I have about three more years of that. My credit will be shot for a bit, which will affect my ability to take certain loans for my daughter's college, but I will figure that out. It was not pleasant, but felt good to figure it out. |
Originally Posted by PhoenixJ
(Post 6689388)
Weaver- as VC put it- financial crap is hard. For me, I think I got myself much more wound up about taking the first step- getting help. Fear of fear. It is good you are doing positive stuff about it tho. Money is such a huge stress. The good thing about getting assistance is having the support- but also transparency. I know one guy who got sober at 69. He is a good friend through meetings. He went from being an executive in his chosen field (and very good at it), to losing his family, home, cars- the lot. He ended up living in a shack on an isolated place on an island (connected by bridge). He owed a great deal of money- but with help, made it through. This also gave him peace of mind- thus alleviating the urge to drink. Support to you. |
Originally Posted by Neoo
(Post 6689400)
Hi Delilah :) I will be self employed doing web design and Donegal Enterprise will support me for two years with an income from them each week and a grant for advertising and any equipment needs.. :tyou |
Originally Posted by Sunflowerlife
(Post 6689391)
3:58 Maryland Here for 24 more- miss you all. Promise to check in more often! |
Originally Posted by erfra7
(Post 6689401)
Fear with the finances I know but I’m paying I pay back my drivers license and now I have a car slowly with God’s help I can breath easy. |
Originally Posted by Neoo
(Post 6689402)
Goodnight Guys :grouphug: Talk tomorrow :) |
Originally Posted by Grateful11
(Post 6689455)
I'm in for 24 more please! 1 week today! 😊 |
Originally Posted by WeaverBird
(Post 6689444)
You guys are fantastic. I am so lucky to have you. Look, you're all saying facing the financial wreckage leads to peace of mind. With a bit of help. I guess it's the old "honesty, open-minded, willing" business again. I'm sure in the past I manipulated a lot of situations and got so upset and anxious I just HAD to take a drink. Money problems seem like a good excuse to drink. Alcohol's such a liar. It promises so much, but ends up taking everything away. Stuff that!!! I'm going in another direction with the rest of you. I love you all and wish only peace and love and safety on your souls tonight :grouphug: |
Originally Posted by Hevyn
(Post 6689484)
Lots of wonderful inspiration here today (and everyday). :) Please give me another 24 peaceful hours. |
Originally Posted by aussieblue
(Post 6689488)
24 more please 10.06 am in Auss. |
Originally Posted by aussieblue
(Post 6689488)
24 more please 10.06 am in Auss. Congrats, again, aussieblue!!! |
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Originally Posted by Kris47
(Post 6689509)
Sweet sober dreams, dear Kris!!! ❤️ |
Originally Posted by Kris47
(Post 6689517)
Nite, nite everyone. GOODnite Jsm. |
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