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Dee74 12-05-2016 03:19 AM

Class of July 2013 Part 37
 
last part here:

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...t-36-a-20.html

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Gilmer 12-05-2016 03:36 AM

Thank you, Dee! :)

SnoozyQ 12-05-2016 06:56 AM

Wolfyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy:kiss:

I am so very happy to see you bAck lovely. I've missed you terribly xxx.

Lots has happened , I'm sure you will catch up . Love you darling one xxxx

Soberwolf 12-05-2016 08:45 AM

Hiya Snooz I've missed you too can't wait to catch up xx :hug:

Thanks for the new part D

SnoozyQ 12-06-2016 10:11 AM

I just got woken up to this message from my son

SnoozyQ 12-06-2016 10:12 AM

See you tommorow you dumb bitch that calls yourself a mum!
You are the most fake **** of a thing i have ever met keep playing your games because you wont be the one that ends it i ******* promise.
Even when i stay away i still get dragged into your childish ******** and you wonder "why i do the things i do" you know your a fake bitch how about being a real person not some spiteful *****!
Spread your legs for someone else hey gold digging fake as **** **** of a mother!
Keep your ******** going.
Youll be on the news oh poor mother of 4 and grandmother to 3 ��
Theyll make you sound like the saint you think you ******* are thats what the news does.
Ask yourself...
Why might i be on the news?
Cos your dead bitch thats ******* why!

Gilmer 12-06-2016 10:53 AM

Oh, Snooz! I'm so dreadfully sorry!

Why will you be seeing him tomorrow? Something related to the damage he did?

Where did he leave you that message? Can that contact be considered a violation of the restraining order?

Leshar 12-06-2016 12:58 PM

Snoozy, this is terrible. Do you have a restraining order or some similar thing in place?
Your son's message is very frightening in my opinion. I would alert your police services as soon as possible. Your son has made a serious threat towards you.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Please stay close to us, please don't drink over this, scary indeed though it is.

Dee74 12-06-2016 04:10 PM

I'd be blocking emails, phone numbers and whatever else Snooz.

There's no hope of reconcilliation with that kind of vile abuse, at least not for the foreseeable future.

I'd also take a copy of that message to the police. Thats a ridiculous, but definite threat.

I'm really sorry you had to read that but this is your son and his wife's sickness - not yours.

Please stay sober :hug:

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Dee74 12-06-2016 04:13 PM

Check in to let us know you're ok Wendy.

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venuscat 12-06-2016 10:11 PM

Um.....yes...what Dee said Wendy.
PLEASE take a copy of that message to the police, and sooner rather than later.
So much love....

...and t all of you. :grouphug:

Gilmer 12-06-2016 11:01 PM

It is excellent to see you, Suze.

Dee74 12-06-2016 11:05 PM

Snooz?
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venuscat 12-06-2016 11:11 PM

Excellent to see you too darling Gilmer.... :) :hug:

Going to try to call Wendy... ♥

PhoenixJ 12-06-2016 11:35 PM

Snooz- I agree with Dee VenusCat. Police and block. Stay safe. That is very unsafe behaviour. Keep posting. PJ

Soberwolf 12-07-2016 12:17 AM

Hope you check in soon Snooz sorry this happened x

Going for a workout speak to everyone after x

Croissant 12-07-2016 04:36 AM

Wendy, you said you put a restraining order in place some weeks ago. I'm very concerned you posted this at around 4 am, when you should have been reporting this to the police?

Are you drinking now? Please, please hand this over to the police and check yourself into detox. Please.

Leshar 12-07-2016 11:59 AM

Snoozy, I hope you are ok. All of us would like to know how you are.
Sending love.

venuscat 12-07-2016 01:54 PM

Thank you again dearest Crois for helping me in San Francisco. :hug:

I spoke to Wendy, and the police are involved now, and Sean is taking care of her.

:grouphug:

Soberwolf 12-07-2016 01:59 PM

Good to hear Suze x

Thinking of you Wendy x

Leshar 12-07-2016 02:03 PM

Suze, thanks for letting us know. I hope you are doing ok. Lots of love.

Gilmer 12-07-2016 02:18 PM

(((((Snooz)))))

PhoenixJ 12-07-2016 02:43 PM

Prayers, Sn

Dee74 12-07-2016 02:54 PM

how are you doing Suze?

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venuscat 12-07-2016 02:57 PM

Feeling better Dee.
The air, the food, the coffee, my own bed....all very very good.

And Nick and I are on the phone (Skype chat), and we have ideas re making it a little faster for me to get back there.
Everything is going to be OK. :)

How are you? :hug:

SnoozyQ 12-08-2016 12:03 AM

Thank you each and every one of you for your responses .

Thanks Suze for your long and lovely phone call yesterday.

Shaun & I slept at Angies last night as they have put our house on night alert.
We took the dogs.

Got home at 10.30 when they weee arresting him , Shaun stayed up til it got light then I stayed up. We are just glued to the front gate .

Police just rang and they didn't have the time to arrest him today but assured me they will do it at 10 am tomorrow.

They have told us to stay inside as we are on high alert and they will be sending cars around intermittently

I'm tired, I'm exhausted . Emotionally more than anything, but other than that we are ok. I'm just angry now. How dare he speak to his own mum this way.

Crois , the restraining order will take place straight after his arrest tomorrow & if she seeks revenge they will slap an order on her as well. These things take time.

I'm just not scared anymore, so don't worry about me , it will get sorted.

I have his number blocked, hers blocked, I have for a year . But she makes up fake profile names on FB and get through that way. I've deactivated my FB profile ad accessit 3 times a day so I can play my scrabble tournaments. Then I deactivate each time after play.

It's truly ludicrous. This is MY child. I never thought my life would pan out like this as he was such a mummy's boy.

But the 2 of them together are a nightmare .

I hope everyone else is doing ok . Be really nice to hear some good news :-)

I love you ALL

Snoozums xxx

venuscat 12-08-2016 12:26 AM

This is your child on drugs and alcohol honey, don't forget that.
This is not him.
And none of this is your fault.

I know how hard this is, and we are all with you here. Every step. :hug: ♥

PhoenixJ 12-08-2016 12:27 AM

Stay safe S, PJ

Gilmer 12-08-2016 01:13 AM

I'm glad you're being protected, Snooz. Thanks for checking in--we've all been very worried.

Soberwolf 12-08-2016 01:18 AM

Thinking of you Snooz xx thank you Suze xx


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