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Ann 11-08-2008 05:29 PM

Whiners Anonymous - Part 16
 
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...part-15-a.html

Let the whining continue...

Ann 11-08-2008 05:35 PM

12 Promises of WA

If we are painstaking about developing our whining techniques, we will be amazed at how proficient we become at expressing our dissatisfaction with people, places, and things that irk us.

1. We are going to know a new freedom of expression.

2. We will realize it's phony to pretend happiness when we just aren't feeling it.

3. We will not regret our whines nor wish to deny their validity.

4. We will comprehend the word serenity and we will know the peace of unburdening ourselves by sharing our whines at WA.

5. No matter how far down in the dumps we feel, we will see how our experience can benefit our fellow whiners.

6. That Pollyanna feeling of "la-dee-da, la-dee-da" will disappear.

7. We will set our own whines aside as we realize someone else's whine may be more deserving of our emotional support .

8. Self-centeredness will not be as prevalent, as we share and compare whining.

9. Our whole attitude and outlook upon ordinary blahs in general, and whining in particular will take on a new meaning.

10. Fear of being recognized and/or ostracized as a Chronic Whiner will leave us.

11. We will intuitively know that healthy whining is not to be stifled, but shared with others like ourselves.

12. We will suddenly realize that sharing a good whine can be very cathartic and we no longer need to whine alone.

Are these unreasonable promises? We think not. Whining has become our way of dealing with adversities--sometimes major, sometimes petty--and knowing our whines will not go unnoticed will work towards reducing the tensions produced by life's little speedbumps.

This thread is neither endorsed nor opposed by Sober Recovery. Any opinions expressed here are those of Whiners Anonymous members, and not, necessarily, those of S.R. as a whole.

Ann 11-08-2008 05:38 PM


WA promotes kindness, empathy for fellow sufferers and builds bonds of friendship.
Many of us who were formerly ambivilent, mean or callous towards others have grown to appreciate and care about the problems of others, thus taking the focus off ourselves. This is how we learn to let go of our own problems as we share in the misfortunes of fellow WA members we find greater meaning in our own whining. (page 62 Whiner's Anonymous; How It Works. Approved by World Service W.A. Conference Groups)
It's a wonderful thing, Whiners Anonymous. http://img404.imageshack.us/img404/5...nsfinwpvn5.gif

Rusty Zipper 11-08-2008 05:40 PM

Spin That Wheel!

woops!, wrong thread...

Immmmmmmmm Looooooooooooost!

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Ann 11-08-2008 05:45 PM

:lmao

Ann 11-08-2008 05:48 PM

Anyone remember Queen For A Day? Where women went on stage and live TV and wept about what they needed...usually a Maytag washer and dryer...and at the end of the show the audience applauded for each one and the applausameter decided who got the most applause and she became Queen for a Day.

Queen won a stinking washer and dryer and a cape and tiara. :dot:

http://img401.imageshack.us/img401/2625/hanley1od4.jpg

Rusty Zipper 11-08-2008 05:55 PM

well, at least King Bubba aint trying to fix yours our Queen'y...

the washing machine that is!

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cmc 11-08-2008 07:06 PM

:eek: I took a nap late this afternoon, had a nice dinner that mr cmc cooked while I was sleeping and then I watched some tv; but when I came back to SR I got lost!!!!
Sheesh...it took me forever to find my Whiners meeting! :crypig

Hevyn 11-08-2008 07:30 PM

I remember Queen For A Day, Ann - must've watched it from my crib judging by the years it was on the air. :turn:

Dee74 11-08-2008 08:01 PM

I heard about it - from my grandma....
:05:

D

Ananda 11-08-2008 08:22 PM

I am not at all pleased with the change!!!!!

however, tradition 1 tonight in the meeting.....the best for the group has to superseed the wants of the individual (but my needs follow close behind!)

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scaredykat 11-08-2008 08:34 PM

No whine for me tonight. Still getting use to where everything is.

Dee74 11-08-2008 08:37 PM

this is a good change IMO Nands...

not only does it free up Newcomers for...newcomers...but I've often thought maybe all those group threads could look intimidating and even cliquey to a newbie - this way they can ease their way into them eventually...if they want.

And nothings been lost for us old fogeys.

I like it :)

for all those who don't...my rates are very reasonable :D
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scaredykat 11-08-2008 08:42 PM

I agree with you Dee. I never thought of it that way before. Makes sense to me.

cmc 11-08-2008 08:59 PM

Change is good, especially if I can whine about it. :)

"I whine, therefore I am."


I don't really care where I whine because I've learned that can whine just as well no matter where I go.

( BTW I like it over here too, Dee)

mxchaos 11-08-2008 10:32 PM

I can't sleep

espresso 11-09-2008 12:49 AM

Good Morning Whiners in our Part 16 thread
Quote from Jerz on previous Whiners' thread

Now this isn't right First I'm told I have to wait 12 seconds before I can post...then I get a double post!

I get this a lot so I will whine about this as well
:ghug

Ann 11-09-2008 02:41 AM


Originally Posted by Dee74 (Post 1975439)
I heard about it - from my grandma....


D

Hey!! :skillet

Queen for a Day was the "original" Whiners, and oh how those ladies knew how to whine. THIS Queen could take a lesson. I'd like the new leather sofa and loveseat, please, because I am the Queen of Whines and I deserve it...

http://img407.imageshack.us/img407/5946/applauseca3.gif


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Dee74 11-09-2008 02:45 AM

I was just funnin' with ya, Ann :D

Heard of it of course, but never saw the US version - we had our own version here downunder tho :)

time for bed - I have a headache:05:

LOL
D

Ann 11-09-2008 02:59 AM


Originally Posted by Dee74 (Post 1975647)
I was just funnin' with ya, Ann :D

Heard of it of course, but never saw the US version - we had our own version here downunder tho :)

time for bed - I have a headache

LOL
D

I knew you were funnin' Dee, that's what I like about this thread :a194:

Hope that skillet didn't give you a headache. Nite and Hugs


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