Thank you all for posting your insight. I really do appreciate your wisdom and support. Outtolunch, You are right. The youth of today were not born spoiled, selfish and entitled. I blame myself. Cynical, Thank you for your wise words. I did give it a great deal of thought. You are right one does not have to do with the other. My children don't have any reason to trust me based not only on the decisions from the past year but for their entire life. I should have left my husband a long time ago. I am really living with that guilt on a daily basis. I feel like I cheated my children of a normal childhood. My daughter was absolutely right the other day when she said I have no idea how she is feeling because my father was not an addict. My father is an amazing man. Although my dad has picked up the father role all this years as an involved and always present Poppy, it still isn't her father. :cries3: I do need to be more compassionate and understanding. Suki, I took notice to my bed sheets this morning. They don't even match in color but they are clean. LOL! Thank you all so much for sharing, offerring guidance and support. Hugs to you all! |
Originally Posted by KelleyF
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Kuan, How would this guy get father of the year? What exactly did he teach his daughter? She apparently had a rant on her Facebook which she didn't expect to share with anyone but her friends; so then he has a rant and tries to embarass her while attempting to stifle his obvious anger. He then takes out a gun and shoots her computer to prove what point? That he is like King Kong? Maybe this is why his daughter goes to Facebook to vent. She's a teenager; get over it. Let's hope she doesn't try to stifle her feelings with drugs. And Miss Manners would also not approve. So I don't know the answer. Saying he should get father of the year was probably a bit much. However I don't think him shooting that laptop is going to cause her to use drugs anymore than me encouraging my sons to express themselves and communicate caused one of mine to use drugs. It's an individual choice. :grouphug: |
Originally Posted by Farfalla
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I blame myself. I am really living with that guilt on a daily basis. When it comes to forgiving myself, "Forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past can be changed." Once I do that, I'm able to make amends with myself and anyone I have affected by my actions. The present and the future changes dramatically, in healthy ways I never could have imagined. I hope and pray you'll forgive yourself very soon :grouphug: |
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